Being 4’11 ( AND ¾ ) was not on my list of life’s goals as a child, and yet.. here we are.
I don’t think I go one day without hearing “ OMG you’re so small”,” How tall are you?”, “ I didn’t realize you were that short”, “Are you shrinking” blah blah blah. From family to classmates to co-workers, it is a broken record. But honestly, I think they all just need glasses ( sorry for all my dear loved ones reading this. I mean no harm), but seriously, I wear glasses and I still don’t see what you all are seeing.
Thing is my height may be lower than average, but so many other attributes make up for it. Of course, there were times when I felt insecure about my height. Thinking I wasn’t as attractive as other girls or feeling like I looked like a little kid all of the time when I wanted to look grown & sexy not “cute”. Yet, for the most part, I always wondered why I never felt as small as people made me out to be, or why they felt the need to remind me every day. No exaggeration, I really and truly feel “tall” most of the time. I don’t ever think about my physical height limitations because my attitude reaches far beyond my physical appearance. Passion and drive will make a person walk “tall”. I mean don’t get me wrong, being short can get annoying. At 22 years old, I still have to jump or climb the kitchen counters to reach things, 6-year-old kids think I’m their age, and the chances of me winning America’s Next Top Model are slim to none. But when I look in the mirror, I can’t imagine seeing me any way else. Lets quickly list all the wonderful advantages I have:
However, despite all of this, there is no doubt that this “small” package will go on to make large contributions to society. If I was any taller, I’d fear for mankind. I mean some of the smallest things in life do the most damage anyway (*cough* men’s hearts *cough*).
But on a lighter note, I make it a personal goal to walk the way I want every young woman in this world to walk. With their head held high, shoulders back, and quick strides of determination because we have places to go, lives to change, and a world to progress.
So to all my fellow queens who are constantly told how “short” or “small” you are, just know that what you see and how you feel is the only thing that matters. Imitate the poetic words of the unparalleled Maya Angelou:
“I walk into a room
Just as cool as you please,
And to a man,
The fellows stand or
Fall down on their knees.”
You don’t have to walk like you have anything to prove, walk like people have to prove themselves to you. People will tell you-you’re short forever, yet Shaquille O’Neal has nothing on you boo. Plus that’s what camera angles are for.
OKUUURRR!
As my line sisters would say… Thank you for coming to my TED talk.
